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August 13, 2025

Stop trying to gatekeep Women and ‘others’ in Tech

Filed under: My Thoughts,Tech Related — Suramya @ 9:47 AM

Lesley made this ‘simple’ request on Mastadon “Guys,Please. Be better than the commenters.” while linking to the screenshot below. It is really sad that it’s 2025 and we still have idiots try to gatekeep people out of ‘their’ playhouse.

Full text below the screenshot
Idiot:Fucking tourists.
Jessica Weiland: Ah so you are a kind one. Thank you for the positive feedback and the willingness to make security accessible and easy to understand for all.
Idiot:Jessica Weiland this is our world. You had yours. You ruined it. Now
Jessica Weiland: What is your world, please do tell.
Idiot: the world of the electron and the switch, the beauty of the baud. We fled here when women like you laughed at us when we were 13. Now you’re here too. Fuck off.

What a sad life they must have to be so threatened by everyone and everything. The irony is that the quote he makes “the world of the electron and the switch, the beauty of the baud.” is from the Hacker’s Manifesto aka The Conscience of a Hacker and was famously quoted in the movie Hackers and is considered a cornerstone of hacker culture (the original meaning not the folks breaking into systems). He just doesn’t quote the full text because it contradicts the nonsense he is sprouting. Below is the relevant section, and I have bolded the important part that he is ignoring:

This is our world now… the world of the electron and the switch, the
beauty of the baud.
We make use of a service already existing without paying
for what could be dirt-cheap if it wasn’t run by profiteering gluttons, and
you call us criminals. We explore… and you call us criminals. We seek
after knowledge… and you call us criminals. We exist without skin color,
without nationality, without religious bias… and you call us criminals.
You build atomic bombs, you wage wars, you murder, cheat, and lie to us
and try to make us believe it’s for our own good, yet we’re the criminals.

Yes, I am a criminal. My crime is that of curiosity. My crime is
that of judging people by what they say and think, not what they look like.

My crime is that of outsmarting you, something that you will never forgive me

What is really relevant is the last line which is what this guy is most upset about. In his mind You can only be the best if you keep the riff-raff (meaning anyone not like them) out.

This is where we all come in, We all need to stand up to this nonsense and call it out when and where we see it. It’s not just a joke, it is extremely demoralizing for someone to be told that they don’t belong and are not good enough to be in Tech. It seems funny to us because we are not the butt of the joke, put the shoe on the other foot and you will realize how unfunny it is. If you are threatened by the girl (or anyone else) in the team because they are better then use that excuse to work towards improving your skill, learn from them. Remember it is not a zero sum game and a rising tide lifts all boats so if your team is strong it will help you as well.

The women in tech have been systematically whitewashed out of our history. For example did you know that a woman (Hedy Lamarr) pioneered the wireless & frequency hopping technology that would one day form the basis for today’s WiFi, GPS, and Bluetooth communication systems? There are a million such examples and then there are the unknown geniuses whose husbands/bosses/coworkers take credit for their work leaving them in the dark while profiting from the work they did.

Remember it is not their world. It’s ours. The world of the electron and the switch, the beauty of the baud where we exist without skin color,without nationality, without religious bias… Yes, I am a criminal. My crime is that of curiosity.

– Suramya

August 9, 2025

Raksha Bandhan 2025

Filed under: My Life — Suramya @ 11:51 PM

Today was Rakhi and I have a lot of sisters so end up with a ton of Rakhi’s being tied on my hand. Rakhi (Raksha Bandhan) is a Hindu festival where sisters tie a talisman or amulet called the rakhi around the wrists of their brothers who symbolically protect them and receive a gift in return. The sisters do a Tilak, tie the Rakhi and then give a piece of sweet. My sisters don’t know how to give just a piece of sweet so I usually have a full laddu/other sweets (usually quite large) stuffed in my mouth for every Rakhi being tied.

This year, Surabhi demanded “Get Dairy Milk Chocolates, a lot of them. No a ton of them for me” for Rakhi, then a few hours later I got a call from Sara (my niece) that she also wanted lots and lots of chocolates when she came over today. So being the nice brother & mama I am, I went to the local shop and bought every single Dairy milk chocolate they had and arranged it for Surabhi & Sara (See below). I got over 60 chocolates for the two of them 😉


Surabhi with her treasure of chocolates

I naively thought that they would take only some of the chocolates home and leave the rest at my place so that everytime they visit they can have a few. Instead they took the entire thing with them… Hopefully they won’t eat it all in one day.


This year’s Rakhi’s


Group pic of all of us who were there in person

I also wanted to do something different and created a shot video of my Rakhi celebrations from 1985 onwards (before that Surabhi was too young to tie the rakhi) to date.


40 years of Rakhi Celebrations (1985 to 2025)

– Suramya

August 6, 2025

Lessons learnt from AWS deleting a 10-year account and all that data without warning

Filed under: My Thoughts,Tech Related — Suramya @ 11:31 PM

The Tech industry has successfully convinced almost everyone that moving to the Cloud is the best option for them and in a lot of cases it is true. If you are a startup or trying out new idea’s or a small shot that doesn’t have a full time IT staff then it is more cost efficient and quicker to run everything on the cloud so that you don’t have to worry about it. However, remember what they say:

There is no cloud, it's just someone else's computer
There is no cloud, it’s just someone else’s computer

Once your data is on their computer you don’t really have full control of it anymore. If it is unencrypted then they can access it and depending on their terms of service use it for various purposes like training their AI models etc. If asked they can share your data with US law enforcement or others even if the server is physically not in the US. (Microsoft admitted under oath that it ‘cannot guarantee’ data sovereignty)

Another major risk is that if your account gets deleted or frozen for whatever reason then you loose all the data stored there with almost no recourse in most cases. Hacker News and Reddit are filled with threads where people have suddenly been locked out of their accounts and are desperate to get through to someone that can restore access. The latest instance of this is where Seuros who is a very prominent Open Source developer had their 10 year old account on AWS deleted without warning with no possibility of recovering the data. Then AWS tried to cover up their mistake and refused to give clear answers on the status of the data for over 20 days.

Seuros did almost everything correctly, they had a comprehensive backup strategy that:

  • Multi-region replication across AWS Europe (completely separate from US infrastructure)
  • Dead man’s switch implemented for disaster recovery
  • Proper backup architecture following AWS’s own best practices
  • Segregated encryption keys stored separately from data

But the only thing that they didn’t account for was the possibility that AWS itself would be the cause of the data loss across all the backups and redundancies. If you have data that you want to preserve you should ensure that you have a local copy of all the data no matter what service guaranty your cloud providers are giving. Nothing in the world is 100% secure/safe so if you don’t have a local copy then there is a possibility that you can loose the data permanently.

Some people will suggest instead of a local copy you can have copies on multiple cloud servers but that has a recurring cost implication to it. I would rather buy an external drive for a few hundred dollars and then periodically sync your data to it. This ensures that you have a copy of the data in your control no matter what happens to it on the server side.

If your cloud provider (Google Photos or Drive/AWS/Azure/Dropbox etc etc) is the only place you have copies of important data then you are risking complete loss of the data for something that isn’t in your control. Think about it before you put all your eggs in one basket.

– Suramya

August 4, 2025

BSNL offers 4G internet with 2GB per day for 1 Rs only.

Filed under: My Thoughts,Tech Related — Suramya @ 7:34 PM

Internet has become a necessity in the modern world and with so many of the services and functionality moving online it is more and more important that folks are able to connect to the internet cheaply. In 2020 (The last time I had looked at this), India had the cheapest mobile data in the world with the average cost of 1GB of mobile data are India ($0.09), Israel ($0.11), Kyrgyzstan ($0.21), Italy ($0.43), and Ukraine ($0.46).

Bharat Sanchar Nigam Limited (BSNL) which is a government-owned telecom network has launched a new offer that beats the 2020 costs hands down. They have launched a mobile data plan for new customers that offers unlimited voice calls and 4G data (2GB per day) at just Re 1(0.011 USD) per month.

This is an awesome offer and would be a tough competitor for the other mobile data providers. I expect other providers to start offering significant discounts in the near future as well just as they did when Jio launched their solution.

– Suramya

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